Recovery is a journey

Recovery is a journey

For years I saddled myself with unrealistic expectations. Newly in recovery, I expected everything in my life to dramatically change the minute I was able to remain free from substances for more than five minutes. But as anyone who has struggled through the disease of...
How PAL has impacted our lives

How PAL has impacted our lives

We are parents of a 28-year-old son who struggles with alcohol abuse and mental illness that he was diagnosed with at a young age.  Over the years we have participated in various support groups, attended numerous educational programs, had family, individual and...
The gift of not feeling judged

The gift of not feeling judged

I have three adult children – two boys and one girl. I was married to their father for 18 years, who was an active alcoholic that entire time. Two of my children are married and have children. I have been happily married to my current husband for 20 years who also has...
Bridge out of darkness…is growth

Bridge out of darkness…is growth

I spent many years of my life in a position of pain and emotional struggle. I had difficulty with even the most basic human interactions and responsibilities. I quite literally lost the ability to function as a normal person. And throughout the whole ordeal, there...
Touching lives through technology – Meet Facilitator Terri

Touching lives through technology – Meet Facilitator Terri

It was a little over two years ago when Terri Cox received a magazine article that her brother-in-law saw – the cover story of Money magazine, highlighting Parents of Addicted Loved Ones. “He knew I was really struggling with my daughter, so he thought I might be...
Pause When Agitated or Doubtful

Pause When Agitated or Doubtful

Regularly, I hear baffled parents recount interactions with their addicted children, wondering things such as: Why did I agreed to that? How did I get talked into this? I can’t believe I said that to my kid! I totally went back on what I and my spouse agreed to. I am...